OUR
STORY
Not many would argue that it’s a tough world in which most young people grow up these days, and circumstances such as poverty, racism, substance abuse, absent parents or other family struggles make it significantly tougher for those experiencing any of
these or other complicating factors. Can you imagine being completely on your own at 18 and expected to independently navigate into adulthood without the support of a family or parents? Many under-resourced young folks finish high school with high hopes of success, but without the know-how or support to achieve those goals.
Founders Bob and Chrissy Stergos have four sons by birth. In 2001, an opportunity presented itself to them. They had a chance to help a young man trying to turn his life around and in need of a new place to grow. With unanimous approval from their sons and each other, the decision was made to invite the young man into their home, sharing not only shelter and food, but also a wealth of emotional and spiritual support. ...

OUR TEAM

Staff

BOB STERGOS

Co-Founder and Executive Director

Bob Stergos, along with his wife Chrissy, have raised their 4 adult sons by birth, and taken in an additional 5 young men to live with their family for periods of 3 to 10 years each.  They both have first-hand experience with welcoming, resourcing and championing at-risk and under-resourced young people into their home and family.

Bob’s experiences as a high school English teacher, coach, long-time Kids and Youth ministry volunteer, along with his subsequent sales, marketing and business networking background, have prepared him well for his role as Executive Director. 

Board of Directors

GINA BIRKEMEIER

BOArd president

Gina Birkemeier, MAC, LPC is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the greater St. Louis area. She has worked in the development and design of programs helping the under-resourced for nearly two decades. She is versed in training for individuals in need of resourcing as well as equipping those who assist under-resourced  and at risk individuals and families.

Gina has provided leadership development and coaching for the staff of organizations working with families in crisis, women exiting the criminal justice system, survivors of sexual exploitation, homeless populations and churches. She is educated in and works from a holistic approach when it comes to developing educational opportunities to help people grow and heal, recognizing the importance of addressing the emotional, mental, physical and spiritual aspects of an individual.

Pastor David Hawkins

Member At Large

Pastor David T. Hawkins was born the youngest of eleven sons and one daughter. He knows more than most what it is to share one’s space…to provide others a seat at the table!  David received his undergraduate degree in Business Administration from the University of Missouri-Columbia and his Masters of Arts in Theology from Covenant Seminary.

At the age of 21, Pastor David Hawkins accepted the call of Pastor at Living The Word Church Fellowship in Collinsville, IL. In 1998, he took over as Pastor with two members and a bankrupt church. Through his dedication and Kingdom focus, he has seen God grow the ministry to worshipping with more than 600 people per weekend. His desire with A Seat at the Table is to help those from his and other Youth groups transition to adulthood in a healthy, safe, nurturing family environment

KERRY MORGAN

Secretary

Kerry Morgan is a re-purposed Software Executive in the St. Louis area where he and his wife Claire have called home for 25+ years.  Recognizing a passion to help others, in 2009 he began working to support youth, single moms, the homeless and hungry.  He left his career in 2012 to help family and further efforts in the community.  Kerry continues to lead in events to bridge racial and distance divides, mentoring teens, and leading large projects serving the community.  He holds a part-time role at The Crossing Church in St. Louis and has a MBA from Saint Louis University.

CHRISSY STERGOS

Co-Founder and Member at large

Chrissy Stergos is an Associate Pastor specializing in youth, young adult and family issues for 17 years. She works full time at a local St. Louis church and is currently finishing her Master of Arts in Counseling at Covenant Seminary. Chrissy has a broad array of experiences which have uniquely equipped her to shepherd young people in difficult situations. It has also been her honor to work with under-resourced youth, teens in crisis and survivors of human trafficking (adults and minors). She teaches regularly, writes occasionally and mentors always.

Chrissy and her husband, Bob have been married 38 years, have four biological son and have fostered numerous other young men who’ve become family. She is astonished and grateful that God has invited her into this bigger story of His.

DARYL TEGTMEIER

Treasurer

Daryl works with business owners and their families to navigate complex issues around their wealth.  This work has informed his desire to help those people and families that have been less fortunate; to open doors, support and love them well…to give them the chance to live out their highest and best, as their loving God intended.

OUR FINANCIALS

We’re just starting out here in the fall of 2018, so check back later for our first quarterly report in early 2019!  (And by the way, it would be great if YOU donated as well, so we have some financials to report!)

FAQ

  • What is the mission of A Seat at the Table?
    The mission of A Seat at the Table is to help under-parented 18 to 25-year olds better transition into adulthood by providing parental presence and community support via a residential mentoring program.

  • What is unique about A Seat at the Table?
    First, it builds upon…and continues the great efforts by “partner” youth-focused organizations in our local community who all work with under-parented/under-resourced young people up to age 18.  Those partner organizations include the likes of Urban K-Life, Angels’ Arms, Lift for Life Gym and youth groups from churches such as The Tabernacle in north St. Louis and Living the Word Church in East St. Louis

    Secondly, we’re partnering with other community resource organizations to provide educational, vocational, job & life-skill training and counseling in one of two residential parenting models for selected 18 to 25-year olds:

    1.  An apartment building in which a “house mom & dad” care for up to four (4) under-parented 18 to 25-year olds who have been selected from “nominating” youth-oriented, well-vetted organizations.

    2.  An existing home in which a couple or family agrees to take in at least one qualifying under-parented 18 to 25-year old.

  • How can I contribute to the efforts of A Seat at the Table?
    There are a variety of ways you can contribute to the efforts of A Seat at the Table:
    - You can volunteer your time and talents here
    - You can donate funds and/or materials needed

  • Are my donations tax deductible?
    Yes, A Seat at the Table is a 501(c)(3) organization.  After making a donation, you will receive an acknowledgement email or letter that is can be used for a tax donation.

  • How can I apply to be a volunteer for A Seat at the Table?
    You can provide some basic availability and interest-area information here.  

  • How can my spouse and I be considered as a set of house parents for A Seat at the Table?
    First, you may contact Executive Director Bob Stergos here to discuss preliminarily and secondarily, fill out a House Parents’ application here.

  • How can I apply to be a participating 18 to 25-year old in the A Seat at the Table program?
    Upon nomination from one of our participating partner youth organizations, such as Urban K-Life, Angels’ Arms, Lift for Life Gym, The Tabernacle and Living the Word Church churches, you can fill out a Program Participant application here.

  • Where can I find your Privacy Policy?
    Our privacy policy can be found here.